Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide (SoBS) is a registered charity that started in 1991 to support those who are left behind after a suicide and, as such it is the only organisation operating throughout the country that specifically services this need. SoBS is proud to be the only national charity in the UK offering peer-led suicide bereavement support to adults over the age of 18 years. Its National Office is based in Derbyshire, and supports 60 plus support groups and a growing number of volunteers — 270 at present — who are all passionate about the support it offers to those impacted by suicide loss.
All evidence shows, and in particular that of those who have been bereaved, that suicide is an intense form of grief that can last for many years and carries with it many complexities of guilt, shame and stigma. To address these needs, SoBS currently operates a national listening service, self-support groups, email support service and a national forum. It also offers a number of conferences, forums and support days for survivors. Increasingly, the organisation is being recognised as a focal point for information and contact on the subject of support after a suicide by many organisations and professionals.
As with any voluntary organisation, there is a vital need to empower volunteers in their work. Most, but evidence suggests, of SoBS's volunteers will be survivors themselves who feel the need to help others, often because they recognise the help that we have given to them. Volunteers will be particularly found manning the calls for the listening service and involved in the operation of the local groups. Contact within the organisation is essential, therefore the charity's annual volunteer conference is important to enable it to share good working practices and knowledge about the support it gives to survivors.